Question:
If my ex-wife resumed her maiden name in the divorce decree, is it legal for her to still use my last name? Can I legally make her stop?

Answer:
Typically, in order to resume a maiden name, a petition to retake prior maiden name must be filed with the court in which you obtained a divorce decree. The various county courts vary on procedure, so that should be reviewed depending on the county in which you divorced.
It is not automatic, so if the proactive steps were not taken, it is possible she has not legally changed her name. If this is the case, you cannot prevent her from continuing to use your last name.
It is also possible she has not updated certain documents, such as her driver’s license, but has updated other documents. If this is the case, it is possible she has not gotten around to it but still intends to make the complete change. Either way, unless she has taken the steps to fully finalize a reversion to her maiden name, she is not obligated to stop using your name.
Remember, I am unable to provide you with anything more than divorce tips for men, so please consult a domestic litigation attorney in your area to obtain specific advice as to the laws in your state and how they impact your potential case.
To arrange an initial consultation to discuss divorce rights for men with a Cordell & Cordell attorney, including Pennsylvania divorce lawyer Maura Boogay, contact Cordell & Cordell.


Mat Camp is a former Lexicon Services Online Editor, who focused on providing a comprehensive look into all aspects of the divorce experience. On MensDivorce.com, he concentrated on issues, such as parenting time, custodial rights, mediation, the division of assets, and so much more.
Mr. Camp used the wealth of experience of Cordell & Cordell attorneys to bring tangible answers to reader questions in Ask a Lawyer articles, as well as offer a step by step process through the divorce experience with Cordell & Cordell Co-Founder and Principal Partner Joseph E. Cordell in Divorce 101: A Guide for Men.
Mr. Camp used thorough research to highlight the challenging reality that those who go through divorce or child custody issues face. He helped foster the continued success of the Men’s Divorce Survival Guide, the Men’s Divorce Podcast, and the Men’s Divorce YouTube series “Attorney Bites.”